The Journey of Self-love: The Wonderful You Behind the Mask

18 Jul, 2018 Personal Development,Self Improvement

Self-love and self-esteem are closely bonded to each other.


When you don’t believe in your abilities, your value or your worth, your mind cannot respond in the opposite way. Your mind will go in the direction of your dominant thoughts.


If you don’t feel “good enough”, you will likely live a life to confirm these beliefs.


If I asked you to make a list of ten positive qualities about yourself, could you list all ten immediately?

Or, would you get stuck after the third or fourth one?


What if, on the other hand, I asked you to list ten of your worst qualities, or things you don’t like about yourself; do you think you could complete that list much faster?


The fact is, most of us focus on what’s “wrong with us”, rather than what’s “right about us.”



The Dangers of Believing the Lie That You Are Not Good Enough


People who try to be the center of attention can sometimes have the lowest self-esteem. They need to feel so accepted by others that they’re even willing to forego their own self-acceptance.


This is a heavy price to pay. Ultimately we learn that if we live to please others, there’s no way to be true to who we really are.


People with high self-esteem generally don’t feel the need to impress others or gain their approval. They feel okay just the way they are. Those who struggle with low self-esteem and low self-worth also have the “not good enough” syndrome.


They fear they won’t be accepted by others because they don’t qualify, so they spend most of their energy figuring out what other people want them to be. Then they try to become that type of person.


If they think they can only be accepted when they’re friendly or happy, then they do everything possible to make sure everyone knows how happy they are. You’ll never find these people complaining or admitting how they really feel. It’s always “Great!” “Wonderful!” “Couldn’t be better!”



What Happens When You Constantly Wear a Mask


Wearing a mask is very strenuous; there’s always the chance of being found out, and eventually that’s what happens.


When we’re not on our best behavior or guarding our emotions, the transparency leaks through. You may know someone who seems to be good-natured all the time. He or she is the kind of person you like to be around because they always has a positive attitude. But, what someone projects on the outside is not always the true core of what they’re experiencing.


This person might also be YOU. Are you wearing a mask?


Do you put on a facade or a brave face for the world?


Are you struggling to let love in because you can’t love yourself first?


It’s easy to forget or ignore the wonderful you that was created for a specific purpose on this Earth. It’s easy to overlook the fact that you’re perfect just the way you are — and that whatever you label a “scar” is actually a medal of honor.


Take off your mask. It’s hiding the real you.


Set down your shield. The world is waiting for what you have to offer. There is ALWAYS something to offer.


Embrace the wonderful, beautiful you that God created and put on this Earth.



Do you struggle with finding a way to let others see the real you? Or have you overcome the fear of staying true to yourself, even if it means not EVERYONE has to like you? Let us know in the comments below how you have been dealing with self-acceptance in your life!


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Showing the World the Wonderful You Behind the Mask
Sometimes we put on a mask because we think it will please or benefit others. But here we share why being true to yourself is more important than anything else.

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